I know some of my Trendsetters maybe wondering how the healthy hair journey is going, so this post it to give an update on how my process is coming along. On one hand, thanks to my hair regimen I have experienced some steady hair growth and on the other hand, I did a mini chop eliminating all the straight relaxed ends which felt so liberating and that makes me now fully telaxed. However, because of the mini chop I went from shoulder length to just below nape length which may seem as if it my hair hasn’t grown much in terms of length comparison but on the bright side it has gotten much thicker.
One of the factors that played a part in my decision to cut away the relaxer ends was when I saw the above pic on Instagram and it made me really think, “do I really want to hang onto to these ends just for the sake of saying my hair is now at a different measurement level?” Honestly, no, I prefer health over length as with time healthy hair will grow but damage hair will just break off eventually. My answer to the pic would be A, unfortunately I didn’t take a pic before I cut off the relaxed ends but here’s a pic of my texture at 20 weeks post my last telaxed process on January 25 2015.
Apart from wearing milkmaid braids here’s a look at the protective styles I’ve done over the last couple of months……
Before this hair journey I always used extensions and braids as my protective styles, but I have found the use of wigs to be fun I can achieve a natural look which takes less time to acquire whether it be a different colour, long, short, curly or straight. I’ve found it easier to do than going through the time-consuming process of styling my thick mane, while dealing with a busy toddler and my day-to-day activities. The wigs aid with my relaxer stretch where I can prolong the time period longer, help to avoid the risk of damaging my hair and scalp from excess combing and pulling as some styles it requires a lot of manipulation and they allow me still have full access to my hair where I can moisturize,wash and condition weekly.
I don’t sleep in the wig I only wear it when I’m going out,
I allow my natural hair to breathe otherwise
and at night I tie my head with a silk scarf.
What protective styles do you use and do you have hang-ups over wearing wigs and other faux hair?
As you may know I have started a healthy telax hair journey and the time to end my relaxer stretch had come after a slight set back in December 2014, my relaxed hair in the nape broke off at the line of demarcation(where the new growth and relaxed hair meet) leaving behind just 2 1/2″ of unprocessed hair. I think I may have prolonged my first relaxer stretch too long as you’re suppose to build up your amount of weeks gradually as my last relaxer was August 6th 2014, a little over 5 mths post-relaxer (face palm). Today I will take you through my first telax experience which took placed back on January 25th. At first I was left stuck with the decision of if I should relax (possible limp bone straight look) or go natural (poof and shrinkage) and I wanted neither option. I actually wanted a bit of both as I wanted the full hair look that naturals have but not the kinky and coily look, so when I came across “telaxed hair” I was floating on cloud 9 as this was the balance I was looking for. Basically, telaxing it is using a mixture which consist of part carrier oil and part relaxer to slightly loosen the hair coils so as to still have a curl pattern.
* Some of you may ask “how do you know when to end the relaxer stretch?” well the signs are easily visible such as:
- unmanageable new growth makes scalp and roots unreachable to apply products
- when there’s excess breakage at the line of demarcation
- when the ends look shaggy and limp while the mid-shaft to root of the hair is full.
My Telax Process
*I had pre-shampoo, washed and deep-conditioned my hair 2 days prior to prepare and strengthen my hair for the process.*
- apply Vaseline to the hairline and relaxed hair
- mix coconut oil with relaxer (approx. 2 tbs) and stir well
- apply the relaxer mix to hair working from the nape to the front of my head
- comb through once and leave in for remainder of required time according to relaxer timeline guide (my time was 30 mins)
- rinse hair making sure hair is completely free from relaxer
- apply neutralizing shampoo, lather and leave in for 10 mins as to allow the hair to fully returned to a neutralize state
- rinse hair completely, lather with neutralizing shampoo and rinse out completely if needed again.
- apply a protein treatment for 30 mins
- apply a deep-condition treatment 30 mins
- blot out the excess water
- lightly moisturize hair using the Liquid.Condition.Oil method (leave-in conditioner – moisturizer – oil )
- trim off the uneven ends
- air dry hair
Afterwards I applied oil to the ends and followed up by flat ironing my hair on low heat to achieve a straight look so as to do a length check pic. So overall, I can say my first telax experience was a success as you can see that I was still able to maintain a curl pattern.
Do any of my trendsetters have telaxed hair? If yes, please feel to share your telax process and results.
Disclaimer: I’m not a professional hair consultant however, this is a procedure that has worked for me results may vary. Information posted is offered to you as tips….you are not obligated to incorporate any tips into your practices.